It’s Day 54 (reset) of the Pink Collar Savvy & Chicon Purpose Project and this post is coming out from my Petite Retreat this Friday morning where I’m keeping calm and practicing self-care. The non-profit faith-based shelter where I’m the Women’s Center Director was offered complimentary tickets to a Beth Moore conference this weekend, so yesterday I decided I’d take today off and spend it at my not-so-tiny tiny house before heading to the event this evening. Working in what I consider full-time ministry is Service on Purpose, but sometimes it takes its toll. Between dealing with the Ds –– challenges women face ––– in my professional life as two of our team members have received devastating diagnoses this week, and in my personal life, mainly in the form of dysfunctional relationships, in order to minimize these barriers and maximize beauty and my best life, I needed time to keep calm and practice self-care at my Petite Retreat.
Though this isn’t my first time serving as a Director, it is the first time I’ve dealt with a terminal diagnosis for a direct report. Being at my best to bless her and to support the staff who love her will require stamina and strength. I’m grateful for this time away from the center at my home/office with the Lord to build up both. And as I prayerfully consider some major decisions regarding personal relationships, I need clarity and space to receive wisdom on which path to walk, as well as a way to process (writing). Keeping calm and practicing self-care here provides all of these.
So I’m thankful for this short respite at my petite retreat. Not only will taking time away from the trauma to spend the day writing and the night with Swan Sisters help me in a professional capacity as I serve staff and residents, it enables me to minimize the barriers we’re facing and to maximize beauty and my best life.
If you’re anything like me and are facing Ds in your personal and/or professional life, my prayer for you is that you be Pink Collar Savvy & Chicand intentional about keeping calm and practicing self-care. Whether that means taking a much-needed day off, attending a conference or simply stealing away to pray and spend some time alone with God. (Jesus himself modeled self-care for us –– Luke 5:16). Doing it in a place that soothes your soul is even better… Then you’ll be able to minimize your barriers and maximize beauty and your best life, too.
Be Savvy & Chic ,
~Pink Collar Coach
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Up well before the crack of dawn this morning to continue with my writing weekend. Feeling blessed to have this peaceful time before church and teaching my faith-based Zumba class. And inspired by the lovely writing space at my petite place.
Pray your day is full of things that feed your soul and that let you pursue your purpose.
I’ve been back to blogging for about 25 days, and though Valentine’s Day was Thursday, I’m feeling especially grateful for My Furry Valentine today. Three years ago, my sweet hubby took me to our local animal shelter for the event by that name, and it was there a two year old gray beauty, Peppa, stole my heart. I added Loveday –– a character in a favorite Rosamunde Pilcher book entitled Coming Home –– and am reminded how much my husband adores me each time I say it. You see, he really wasn’t in favor of our first kitty, Skylar Belle, joining our blended family, but gave in to my needling for my kiddos to have a pet. They were my first consideration in giving her a sibling, but he confided that he really got her for me. That knowledge and Peppa Loveday’s docile spirit made her my constant companion. In fact, she now resides at the tiny house I rent for personal and professional use. And today, docile as she is, she earned her keep by serving as a mouser and dealing with an unwanted visitor. Her feline feat has endeared My Furry Valentine to me even more!
As Peppa Loveday sits at my feet while I write, she reminds me that we females can be ultra feminine, pretty, sweet, and meek. But it doesn’t mean we aren’t intrepid too. Though she is skittish –– I believe she was abused by the original owners who named her then dumped her off at the pound –– this trait has been evident in Peppa Loveday from the moment we brought her home. While Skylar hissed and growled, Peppa never once cowed to her bullying. In fact, most of the time she simply responded by sitting serenely and looking at her like, Really?
When I tried to bring Peppa over to the tiny house, at first she wasn’t feeling it and let me know when I tried to put her the pet carrier. Not wanting me to get scratched up again, my husband got a large dog crate, put her food and water inside and trained her not to be afraid to go in. That’s how we finally got her over to what I’m beginning to think of as “My Petite Place”. Having her with me makes it feel even more like a home/office. And it makes me feel my husband’s love all over again. After all, not only did he go to great lengths to get Peppa Loveday for me in the first place, he’s gone above and beyond to bring me My Furry Valentine.
It’s Day 6 of being back to blogging and I’m thrilled to share my RX for my tiny house’s tired kitchen cabinets. This past summer I began renting a tiny house for personal and professional use. It actually lives quite large at about 1,000 square feet. And I love every inch of this gorgeous 1905 shotgun boasting incredibly high ceilings, tall windows with original transoms, thick white-painted hardwood trim and character to spare. With all those vintage details going for it, the apartment grade refurbished oak kitchen cabinets were the only thing that weren’t pretty. Good thing my landlords were up for letting this DIYer give them a much needed facelift. They even provided the paint and supplies for the RX for my kitchen cabinets!
After two weekends of sanding, removing knobs and pulls, priming, painting and then reapplying the knobs and pulls (I did the top cabinets first, took a break then attacked the lower with renewed vigor!) the kitchen looks like it goes with the rest of the house. All of the time and elbow grease were well worth it. Not only because the room is now aesthetically pleasing but because of the sense of satisfaction that comes with having done it myself.
And you can too. Have cabinets in your home or office that need a refresh? Why not be Pink Collar Savvy & Chic and tackle them yourself? You don’t need lots of money, just the will and the work ethic. As a first timer painting cabinets, I can tell you from experience , it will be worth your while if you give provide a little RX for your cabinets!
If you’re a regular reader, you’re aware my blogging has been sporadic, bordering on non-existent for the last few months. I say that because I’m no longer aware what day of the Pink Collar Savvy & Chic on Purpose Project it’s supposed to be! While it’s true I’ve been dealing with some major Ds –– personal challenges that negatively impact professional performance –– (i.e. diagnosis, dysfunctional relationships, etc.). I’ve also been blessed to see God’s hand working in them all. For my good and His glory. One of the ways this is most apparent is the fact that I’m now renting a Tiny House for personal and professional use. Dream. Come. True. That being the case, I’ve been faced with a positive D –– decorating! Working diligently both day and night (with the help of my supportive hubby) to make the space into what I want it to be, it occurred to me how concerned I am about the interior of my Tiny Home. Then this morning, as I prayed following my devotion, it struck me that I need to be even more concerned about the interior of my heart. What an impactful lesson from my Tiny House decorating process!
As a Pink Collar Savvy & Chic on Purpose blogger, I’m so excited to begin sharing the things I’ve done to make my Tiny House beautiful, comfortable and functional. I’ve gone to little expense but loads of effort to make it just right and oh so Shabby Chic! But when I’m honest with myself as a believer, I have to ask, Does sharing my faith hold as much appeal? Am I as enthusiastic about surrounding self to God’s renovation process as I am a physical space to my designs? And my answer is Not nearly. Thankfully, He called me out today to reign me back in. So starting right now, I surrender my heart to the same interior refresh as I have this new home/office. What a life changing experience from my Tiny House decorating process!
How about you? How willing are you to let God make you lovely on the inside? Will you be Pink Collar Savvy & Chic on Purpose and let Him create a pure heart and right spirit in you, too? (Psalm 51:10 NIV).