It’s Day 269 of the Pink Collar Savvy & Chic on Purpose Project, and when I received a scathing message from an abusive person in my life that called me what they’ve made me out to be, rather than internalizing it, I reflected on the lyrics from one of my favorite songs from The Greatest Showman: “This is Me”. I’m not going to give this individual blog space by naming them; I’ll just say it’s apparent from his latest written communication that he’s not a happy camper! And despite the ranting and raving in the email about me, I am. You see, when it’s all said and done, it comes down to whether we’re at peace with God and ourselves. Martina McBride crooned it: Cause in the end, there’s nobody else. I’m not my hater’s judge, but I can say I’m OK with myself between my own two ears. Each night I lay my head down knowing I’m not perfect, but that I’m alright with God. Better yet, He’s alright with me. He sees me through the eyes of grace and mercy. HIS LOVE –  not the hatred of somebody that I used to know- is my identity. This is me.